Living in Color Speaking Engagements

Bold Conversations. Brave Connections. Real Impact.

At Visionaries of Living in Color, we bring depth, authenticity, and dynamic energy to every stage we step on. As seasoned therapists, coaches, researchers, and storytellers, we use our lived experiences and clinical expertise to engage, educate, and empower audiences across the country.

Whether you’re hosting a professional conference, corporate event, university symposium, or motivational gathering, we’re ready to spark connection and shift perspectives—one talk at a time.

Why Book Us?

  • Dynamic Duo: A married, multicultural team blending clinical knowledge, personal storytelling, and lived insight.

    ✱ Can also book individually according to Tammy or Norman’s area of expertise and audience.

  • Inclusive Expertise: We specialize in relationships, sexuality, identity, trauma, kink, military life, and personal growth.

  • Engaging Style: Real talk, powerful research, humor, and vulnerability—delivered with heart and authenticity.

  • Customizable Presentations: We tailor each talk to meet your audience’s needs, from keynotes to breakout sessions and panels.

Signature Talks & Presentations

🖤 Unmasking Desire: Race Play, Power, and Pleasure in Kink

Based on our groundbreaking research, this powerful and provocative talk explores the taboo terrain of kink and race play. We unpack the complex dynamics of consent, cultural context, erotic power, and emotional safety—challenging audiences to move beyond shame and toward nuanced understanding.

Ideal for: sexuality conferences, sex educators, kink communities, diversity panels, and graduate psychology programs.

👊🏾 Masculinity Is Not the Enemy: Redefining Strength, Sensitivity & Self-Worth

This inspiring and healing presentation dismantles toxic masculinity myths and offers a reimagined view of what it means to be masculine in today’s world. We blend cultural commentary, psychology, and personal stories to help audiences see masculinity as a source of empowerment—not oppression.

Ideal for: men’s groups, leadership events, corporate programming, youth organizations, and therapy trainings.

⚖️ The Harmony of the Divine Masculine & Feminine

True wholeness comes from honoring both energies within us all. This soulful and energizing session explores how balancing the divine masculine and divine feminine helps individuals and relationships thrive. With relatable stories and practical insights, we invite audiences to reframe gender roles, reclaim identity, and reignite connection.

Ideal for: spiritual communities, relationship conferences, healing retreats, and women’s or men’s empowerment events.

🎖️ Life After the Uniform: Navigating Military Transitions With Purpose & Power

Leaving the military isn’t just a career shift—it’s an identity shift. As a retired Army veteran and a therapist married to one, we speak candidly about the challenges veterans and their families face in civilian life. This deeply personal and validating presentation offers hope, humor, and tangible tools for navigating grief, change, and renewal after service.

Ideal for: veteran conferences, military spouse groups, mental health trainings, and corporate veteran initiatives.

Book Us

Let’s make your next event unforgettable. Whether you’re looking for a keynote, workshop, panelists, or a fireside chat, we bring passion, professionalism, and powerful presence to every stage.


📍 Available for in-person and virtual events. We travel nationwide—and internationally.

Let’s talk real. Let’s live in color.

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